Revenge

One of the quotes I came across recently says... "When seeking revenge ....... dig two graves". The passion that we feel inside sometimes to hurt others just as much or even more than they hurt us is like a burning desire that never gives up. Why is the need to satisfy our ego and prove that we are right more important than being at peace within ourselves?

I hear so many stories on a daily basis of what others are going to be do to hurt the people that hurt them and the thoughts of hate that they keep inside. We sometimes go out there with that passion to destroy .. it doesnt matter what it takes and we strive to bring down someone elses character just to make our own character "look" good.

What is most times overlooked is that people eventually get wise ... the truth always comes out as they would say. The need for revenge on others should not be a thought in this world of experience that we live in. Trying to hurt someone as much or more than they hurt us only fuels a never ending battle between both individuals.

There are times where we need to let go of the negativity of others and allow them to be in their own space and yes, what they may have done would hurt us,  but accept that hurt.. love that hurt and allow it to flow through taking from it the beauty it was here for. Harboring thoughts of hate and revenge for another just shows the need to be right ... not the need to be happy.

Sometimes the sweetest revenge is staying silent when they expect you to react. When someone can still make you angry to the point of where it consumes you then they still have control over you. When we can allow others to just "be" who they are and you can in turn allow yourself to bask in the beauty of your experiences then revenge would never consume you.

We have to strive and be responsible for the actions of ourselves and the vibrations we continue to carry. Not everyone is going to "love us" and not everyone you are going to allow in your space but harboring negative thoughts and using your energy to create and fuel that war will only prove to destroy you ... in light of the quote ... U are digging your own grave.

When others take the time to hurt you with words or try very hard to bring your character down .. transmute it and watch it transform into an experience that allowed you to grow instead ...

Vultures

We all have the days where we sit and maybe just cry a river of tears or you feel like the vultures at your back wont ever leave you to be.  All the memories stir inside and you come to the bitter sweet moments that is just endless.  The tears flow with a million questions.  ‘Why”…… seems to be the most popular of them.   Why do the daggers that others carry cut so deep that you feel you are in the wreckage of your own soul? 

Why do others single you out based on their own fears and perceptions and create havoc and illusions for others so that each step you take you feel like you are taking ten steps back.  What is their mission? Why do others speak ill about you even though they have no clue of who you are or what you are about?  Why are they in your life ? Why do they choose to create mischief?

Who are these vultures and what do the daggers mean?  The vultures are lights on our path … the daggers? … (smile) …. they are the lessons.  We trust others with everything we have inside sometimes but inside their intentions are not the same for us.  What do we do ?? How can we know?  We will always find the truth in things when we silence our mind.  That whisper you hear, that message you get when you just “listen”.  Its always there … that little voice.  The Angels walk with us always .. they are never far behind. 

When the vultures bring you to your knees – look up … what do you see?  Close your eyes and listen to the sky.  Find the strength in the sweet sound of the Divine …… he whispers “I am with you”.  Who can these vultures hurt?  Us?  Yes they can – but only when we allow them to.  These vultures are the catalyst that brings us to our core.  These vultures are the ones chosen to help us …. See it that way or don’t ….. it is what it is. 

They have their own lessons to learn ... we have ours.  In the breaking of hearts we sometimes learn the greatest lessons.  They have their own war within ...  they would have their own vultures they would meet on their path that will carry them to the realisation of their actions.  What we need to concentrate on is our light.  We have to be like the eagle that flies free and independent.  When we look at ourselves lets make sure we are not vultures looking for our prey day after day.

So when next you cry that river of tears and the daggers in your back seem to break you to the core remember that on our path we will find the ones that will stir us ..… it may not seem that way but when you look closer you will realise that in each of these adversities it helped you in a way far greater than what you expected.  Don’t spend your life questioning,  just believe in the limitless lessons we are here to learn.  In your silent wars the victory is there when you conquer your inner self.

Fear

Who does not know this emotion ??  The emotion that changes how you see life -- how you perceive others and more so how much it holds you back from just Being.  We all have it from time to time and subconsciously as well -- deeply the roots connect with us and before we know it our life has passed us by with nothing great to remember. 

There are others who feed fear into others - they are the weak ones when we really look at it.  They strive for control and they live their life feeding on the fear of others.  Most fear to lose - to lose something whether material gain or something of importance to them, others fear losing someone and they live their life trying to please others instead of themselves. 

Fear is that obstacle that stops you from accomplishing everything you ever dreamed of and more. That light that is within is not controlled by the darkness inside -- the light have the power to shine so bright that the darkness will never return. 

Feeding into fear stops you from being who you truly are.   If you have to lose someone or something then its divinity stepping in that will make room for something far better - we just have to trust that.  Losing friends, relationships is very difficult and it comes with a lifetime of pain sometimes but if we grasp the lessons, grow from it and let go in love then our fears would not follow us in the next step in life and love. 

Never allow anyone to make you feel less of yourself. Sit quietly at times and listen to the little voice inside that always steer you on the right path.  There is no need to fear when we have the angels, the guides and all the beings around us sent to us by that Divine Love from above.  When you feel those wings around you and you hear that voice inside saying "I am with you"  what is there to fear ??

Hold strong to your values, you will not do everything right and the ones that hold your hand along the way will NEVER let you fall.  The ones that stand with you will always be there loving you unconditionally even after you come out of your cocoon and turn into the beautiful butterfly you are meant to be.